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Nanette
Trial Member
Wooooow 
I had no real reason of leaving the LS but the fact that my wife left and we play together.
Now I know why.
When I read this the only thing I can say is :
I now know I was wrong being in this LS we really have different point of view.
Before criticizing I suggest you to check family definition.
CUK is not a family just some groups joined under the same pearl.
Scudley
Mr. Scudley
Can some one who is a forum whore please explain this thread? (no way am I reading other LS's forums hard enuff keeping up to date with this one hehe) coz Nan,Ty, Sy and Minagi all left months ago over some stupid and petty argument? why we going over the same shit again? Can sleeping dogs not be left alone?
P.S. And nope this don't mean I like to sleep with Dogs, that's more Druss's cup'o'tea hehe
Scud|Petty arguments
P.S. And nope this don't mean I like to sleep with Dogs, that's more Druss's cup'o'tea hehe
Scud|Petty arguments
Vigilia
Mrs. Scudley
Zeus, just a note mate, they left weeks ago but the drama was lost in the Great Forum Wipe of 2005.
Nanette, Linkshells are often referred to as "family", even your wife speaks of them as family which is why I said what I said. I think she was using the term far too lightly.
And Tyscha as an afterthought I shouldn't had posted anything on KtD. Yes, you deserve every right to find a new linkshell and a fresh start. But you know me well because like you, I refuse to sit quietly and not say what I think. And don't give me that bulldung that you left because you wanted Minagi to stay. In my personal experience you both acted like idiots because you were both my friends but when it came down to drama of getting items/ranks/RL issues you both left the linkshell in a huff rather than talk things over or let your friends try help you over the hard times.
Which after having known you both for almost/over a year was a real shock and honestly left a very sour taste to many of us. Friends and family don't just leave at the first glitch, and unless you appreciate that I don't think you can refer to linkshells as "family". This is what ticked me off, that you went and told others off for not being a "family" when you yourself showed so little appreciation to the word itself.
Nanette, Linkshells are often referred to as "family", even your wife speaks of them as family which is why I said what I said. I think she was using the term far too lightly.
And Tyscha as an afterthought I shouldn't had posted anything on KtD. Yes, you deserve every right to find a new linkshell and a fresh start. But you know me well because like you, I refuse to sit quietly and not say what I think. And don't give me that bulldung that you left because you wanted Minagi to stay. In my personal experience you both acted like idiots because you were both my friends but when it came down to drama of getting items/ranks/RL issues you both left the linkshell in a huff rather than talk things over or let your friends try help you over the hard times.
Which after having known you both for almost/over a year was a real shock and honestly left a very sour taste to many of us. Friends and family don't just leave at the first glitch, and unless you appreciate that I don't think you can refer to linkshells as "family". This is what ticked me off, that you went and told others off for not being a "family" when you yourself showed so little appreciation to the word itself.
Vigilia
Mrs. Scudley
GBH said:
More or less yes, and how I thought the term shouldn't be used so lightly.
Those who are confused, the original thread is here:
http://www.kirinthedestroyers.com/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?t=1109
Or would be, but Tyscha has deleted all she said there. >.<
The background is that she applied to KtD after leaving ClanUK, which was nice since KtD is a good Linkshell. I hoped her best of luck with it despite how she may have left us. Then after they didn't get back to her application asap (or with the positive attitude I think she expected) she responded and that's how the whole thread came to be. Typically I jumped in and had to say my opinion about how she shouldn't give out to peeps about linkshells being "family" when she disregarded her previous "family" so lightly. That's all there was to it.
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McHoff H. McChrist
4" Member
drama++
I don't see the obsession with the word "family". You can pick your friends, you can't pick your family.
I don't see the obsession with the word "family". You can pick your friends, you can't pick your family.
Vigilia
Mrs. Scudley
I'm not going to get into the drama between you and Minagi and Ritter and what happened there, I wasn't present on the LS to witness it and it was between you guys how you handled it. Minagi has already apologised to the way he acted on the day and like you know yourself when angered people do rash things (like blacklist others when they really should talk). All I know is that from what I've heard afterwards from people involved and on the LS at the time and based on that and what I read here at the time it was indeed childish pointless drama and I still refuse to take it seriously. The guys said several times they'd help you do rank 10 too, to act like a little princess because people don't bend over backwards for you is out of order. I said what I thought back then and I still say the same.
Doing a rank mission with a pick-up party that asks you to go with them because if you don't go they can't do it, is not exactly backstabbing. When you're in a job like Paladin that's crucial to a party it's really hard to say no when you get asked to help because you know when you say no you're messing things over for five other people. Plus it's in the nature of all good paladins to be helpful and it's been said many times that Ritter and Minagi are both awesome tanks. I can only imagine that the guys must have been annoyed that after them helping strangers outside the linkshell you turned around and told them that you were disappointed in them. And yes, I know they were both in the wrong to bitch about you in turn. So yeah, it was petty and stupid from the lot of you.
But yeah, like Minagi said, this was all gone over weeks ago. If the forums hadn't wiped I wouldn't be repeating myself and would just link to what I said then.
And I don't believe I'm reading what you say there with regards me ignoring you. I've /waved, /poked, /smiled to you every time I've seen you/Syrous (I'd add Nan to the list but I honestly don't remember seeing her not once but then again I spend very little time in Jeuno/cities) out and about, I've spoken to you in tells asking how you're doing since you left the shell if I've seen you around. I don't know if you expect me to do a "/sea all Tyscha" every day and send you many greetings, <3s and best wishes the second I log on and send you roses and chocolates to your delivery box on Saturdays or what?
Doing a rank mission with a pick-up party that asks you to go with them because if you don't go they can't do it, is not exactly backstabbing. When you're in a job like Paladin that's crucial to a party it's really hard to say no when you get asked to help because you know when you say no you're messing things over for five other people. Plus it's in the nature of all good paladins to be helpful and it's been said many times that Ritter and Minagi are both awesome tanks. I can only imagine that the guys must have been annoyed that after them helping strangers outside the linkshell you turned around and told them that you were disappointed in them. And yes, I know they were both in the wrong to bitch about you in turn. So yeah, it was petty and stupid from the lot of you.
But yeah, like Minagi said, this was all gone over weeks ago. If the forums hadn't wiped I wouldn't be repeating myself and would just link to what I said then.
And I don't believe I'm reading what you say there with regards me ignoring you. I've /waved, /poked, /smiled to you every time I've seen you/Syrous (I'd add Nan to the list but I honestly don't remember seeing her not once but then again I spend very little time in Jeuno/cities) out and about, I've spoken to you in tells asking how you're doing since you left the shell if I've seen you around. I don't know if you expect me to do a "/sea all Tyscha" every day and send you many greetings, <3s and best wishes the second I log on and send you roses and chocolates to your delivery box on Saturdays or what?
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